Last Saturday night, my wife and I joined a group of her co-workers to deliver and serve dinner for the families at our local (Jacksonville, Florida) Ronald McDonald House (RMH). She works for Nelnet, a Lincoln, Nebraska-based provider of student loans and related services.
I’ve known of the Ronald McDonald House system for a long time, but had never taken the opportunity to visit one. I’m extremely thankful that I’ve never needed to be a recipient of their services. They provide temporary housing and other services for the families of children who are critically ill. This RMH is practically walking distance from Baptist Health’s Wolfson Children’s Hospital, but serves other North Florida healthcare facilities, too. When kids, including a fair number of international patients, come to Jacksonville hospitals from anywhere out of town, their families can take up residence in the comfortable (not opulent) hotel-like rooms at the house.
I was so impressed with the Jacksonville RMH. It’s a beautiful, spotless, modern, comfortable, and homey facility, with about 30 guest rooms, a workout facility, family lounge, TV rooms, playground, and a state-of-the-art industrial kitchen.
Founded and supported by the McDonald’s hamburger empire, funded by private gifts, and heavily reliant on volunteers, the houses provide meals for residents as often as possible, through volunteer contributions of food and labor. My wife’s team volunteered to bring in lasagna, salad, and all the fixin’s for the expected group of about fifty residents on this rainy Saturday night. There were about eight of us there, including a few spouses. One guy brought a bunch of lasagnas from Cosco, one couple brought the salads, and we got off easy with the paper products. We arrived about an hour before dinner, heated up the lasagnas, put out the salad and drinks, and talked to people.
The residents were fed a hearty meal for less than two dollars each, and with minimal effort on our part. We weren’t building affordable housing in 100-degree heat, cleaning up after a hurricane, or going to the third world on a medical mission. But good was done.
Secondarily, it provided a useful and meaningful way for my wife and her team to interact outside of work. To get to know each other, and each other’s families, a little better.
So – here are some thoughts. First, if you’re in a position to influence the charitable gifts of your organization, consider supporting something that provides help to people who need it. I know there are lots and lots of worthy recipients. It doesn’t matter so much which ones you give to, but give what you can afford, to something.
Organize a group to volunteer to help like this group from Nelnet did. Money is, of course, always welcome, but so are donations in kind, and the gift of a few hours of people’s time. But here’s the thing – we shouldn’t always leave it to someone’s admin or a supervisor to organize these efforts. If you’re a director, VP, or other executive, it would be great to see you spearhead an effort to give back to the community, and pitch in along with everyone else. It’s definitely one case in which you get back more than you give.
Richard Hadden is an author, leadership speaker, and business consultant, who makes the business case for creating a great place to work. For more information about Richard, his partner Bill, and their work, or to book Richard or Bill to speak for an upcoming event, please go to www.ContentedCows.com.